So because I am a generous soul, I am GAVE AWAY an autographed copy of my new favorite sex book by sexologist Elle Chase.

This book is AMAZING, and despite the title, you don’t have to be a “girl” or curvy to use this book. It works for men, women, and genderfluid people, of ALL shapes and sizes. 

It also includes tips for accommodating bad backs, shoulders, gimpy knees… The drawings are wonderful, and the names of the sexytimes positions had me laughing out loud. 

Also, I got out a pencil to check off the ones I’ve tried. Quite a few in the rear view, but with 101 positions, (yes, you sexy beast, that’s one-hundred-and-one!) I found many I hadn’t. #sexgoals

Curvy Girl Sex delves into anatomy, toys, and many aspects of getting into a sexy mindset. Sometimes we give up on sex, or love, because we think that our [insert bodily imperfection here] means we don’t DESERVE sex, or love. No. Lies, damned lies!

We all deserve those things (if we want them). We don’t have to give up sex because some parts are extra-large or don’t work the way they used to, we just need to know how to accommodate them, and this book shows us how.

^^^ All the this. Being sexy is about being in the moment. Savoring the moment. Instead of worrying that your body doesn’t match your porn star fantasy (trust me, I’ve seen ’em, even THEY don’t match that porn fantasy without makeup and lighting and very careful editing), enjoy being with your partners – including yourself.

I know you want this delicious and helpful book. (Update: Was so pleased to give one away, in 2017!)

If you want to sign up for my mailing list, just because I’m nice and you’re nice, that would be cool. Link is RIGHT HERE. Because very soon, my Kicking Cancer’s Ass memoir is launching, and I know you want to score a copy of that, right?

Happy sexytimes!