I firmly believe that anyone who can come out, should. The more of us there are leading our happy, responsible, mutually supportive lives, the more people will see that it is possible to be non-monogamous and also be ethical and a good member of our community.
Writing is one of those weird businesses? Hobbies? Passions? where you can do it alone… but why would you want to? And realistically, as writers, we really can’t do it alone. We need cheerleaders, agents, editors (and of course, readers). I belong to several writers’ groups, both online and in person, and one of the most interesting…
Sex happens in a context. And all the complications of everyday life influence the context surrounding a woman’s arousal, desire, and orgasm.
I know, on paper, that cuddles are good for us – for the immune system, for the oxytocin high, for pain relief, and many other healthy things. But… cuddling with a stranger, or people with whom I’m barely acquainted, but not normally that intimate? Have to admit, it kind of squicked me out.