Sorry for the long absence, but I’ve been all tied up. Literally. Besides the day job and lotsa doctor appointments to deal with the cancer thing (more on that, below), I’ve been taking workshops and attending events. Bondage and Meditation. Yes, it’s a thing. It has been a sensual, peaceful, wonderful way to connect with…
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Choosing to Dream with Jennifer Senhaji

Music is an addiction. I can often be found in the car, singing at the top of my lungs with whatever is playing.
50 Shades of Rape
I avoided the #AskELJames Twitter party/skewering, because generally, I don’t “do” Twitter, FaceBook events, and the like, but found myself in some interesting group discussions about it, and her work, anyway. Some female writers I know, along with EL James herself, vigorously deny the reality that, as depicted in Fifty Shades of Grey, Christian rapes Ana.…
We Are All The Champions (Breast Cancer)

I think the key, at least for myself, is not expecting even Cancer-Lite to be an easy ride, but to create plans for “okay, sometimes it’s gonna suck; how am I going to get through the wobbly bits?”
7 Things My Sexy Boudoir Photos Taught Me

Things change, sometimes dramatically, when we shine a different light on them.